I found this as a (Facebook comment) response to a Huffington Post article written by the mother of an autistic child who believes that vaccination did NOT cause her child's autism. I know of intelligent parents (one was a pharmacist) who held off on vaccinations for their child until she was two, but nonetheless, had her vaccinated on schedule after that. The point is: they had good reason for the delay, but vaccinated her when they felt it was a better time for her individual health situation. They had her appropriately vaccinated. Period.
The original article:
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This parent has a very particular point of view about the necessity for vaccinations that people are often clueless about. We simply don't understand the impact of our irresponsible inaction until it lands in our own laps, and fortunately, it rarely happens. However, this is information that simply needs to be widely known, due to our own sometimes willful, sometimes accidental, ignorance.
For the record, I'm fully vaccinated, have tetanus shots more often than required (because bloody germy accidents come my way quite often), and I'll be getting the flu shot next week. The shot. Not the nasal mist. I understand the shot is better. The last time I had the flu was the year the swine flu was a problem, and that's what I got. I hadn't taken the experimental vaccine that just came out, and I was exposed to it by my nephew at Christmas. (Unintentionally, of course.) Fortunately for the community, my sickly self was home alone for Christmas Break and it ran its course before I felt well enough to get around other people. And again, I'm getting the flu shot because I know how bad the flu can be, especially when there is no one to take care of you. Do I have a reaction? Yes, usually. My injection site gets a little hot and my arm is a little bit sore. I think the first time I got a flu shot, I did get a little feverish, but after that, it's like my body says, "Oh look, it's the flu vaccine again. Well, I still have a tiny bit of immunity left from last year, so I won't have to react harshly this year. " It's like a yearly booster, with just a dash of new strain tossed in. Layman's terms, of course. I've had scant medical training.
The HPV vaccine? Well, I'm not so sure that one is safe for the public at this point, so I don't believe it should be mandatory. I think it should be more extensively tested before it becomes an option, but never mandatory.
But "childhood" epidemic diseases are a different matter.
"An Open Letter to Non-Vaxxers:
Tonight, while enjoying a nice dinner, I got a call from the director of my son's preschool. She was calling to tell me that they had made the decision to put my son in a different class because two children in the class he was supposed to be in have "opted out" of their vaccines. This may not sound like a big thing. He is still in the Tuesday-Thursday class, and since he doesn't start school until next Tuesday, it's not like he has to get readjusted to a whole new class. No harm, no foul. Actually, this is a big deal--a very big deal. You see, my son is immunocompromised. He has cancer. He was fully vaccinated and supporting the whole "herd immunity" thing before his cancer diagnosis, but that darn chemo wiped out his immunity to the communicable diseases against which he had already been vaccinated.
So, parents who choose to not vaccinate because you feel it's the "right choice for your family", I would like to thank you. Thank you for adding yet another worry to my plate and my husband's plate. You see, we already worry about a lot--it's an unfortunate part of your child having cancer--you worry every night. On top of worrying about things like relapse, organ toxicity brought on by chemo, debilitating late effects of chemo, secondary cancers brought on by chemo, the mental effects of having more than three years of painful treatment, we now get to worry about, of all things, measles. And mumps. And whooping cough. And chicken pox.
Let me explain something about having a child with cancer to you: everything is robbed from your child in some form or another. Friends, Halloween, Christmas, play dates, school. It's all taken away at some point or another and in some form or another because we have to protect our children from germs, because if they catch the wrong germs during the worst part of treatment, they can die. My son was isolated from everyone except immediate family for an entire year. For parents whose children are going through chemo, the decision to send them to school is a momentous one. It requires a leap of faith and trust in the surrounding community, in your child's teachers and administrators, and in the families sending their children to school. It requires herd immunity. Now, even though my son is now in a different class than your unvaccinated children, I get to worry about him using the communal bathroom, the playground, and even walking around the halls with them. If there is an outbreak of measles in, say, Austin this winter, I won't know if you have relatives in Austin and went to go see those relatives for Uncle Bobby's birthday. I won't know if your child was exposed to measles at the Austin Chuck-E-Cheese and then showed up at school on Tuesday. Oh, I'm sure you'll do your due diligence and call the school to inform everyone that your child has come down with a case of the measles once it appears, but, the damage is done--the exposure to my immunocompromised child has already happened. It's too late. Your choice just earned him a ticket to the hospital. Your choice just earned him a lot of shots and more toxic drugs in the desperate effort to stave off whatever disease your unvaccinated child passed to him. If, God forbid, he does come down with that disease, your choice just earned him a trip to the Pediatric ICU for a while--days, maybe weeks. Who knows--it depends on how his already stressed body handles everything.
People like to say that in choosing to not vaccinate, they are making the "best choice for their family", and that, after all, their children are the ones at risk, not other people's children. No, sorry, you're wrong. Choosing to home school is a choice that is made in the best interest of a family--it impacts nobody but your family. Choosing to eat all organic and locally grown food is a choice that impacts nobody but your family. For that matter, choosing to eat nothing but fast food and frozen meals is a choice that impacts nobody but your family. Choosing to not vaccinate impacts my family and my immunocompromised son. It impacts the teacher who is pregnant and teaching your non-vaccinated child. It impacts the man going through chemo who happened to be behind you in the grocery store when your unvaccinated child sneezed. It impacts the mom next to you at the pick up line at school who is on immunosuppressive drugs for her rheumatoid arthritis and who is bending down to hug her child just as your unvaccinated child coughs. Your "choice" has repercussions for your community.
Part of the cost of living in a first world country is that you have to do things that support the community in which you live. You pay taxes to pay for the police that respond to your 911 calls, to pay for the teachers who teach your children, and to pay for roads to be plowed and paved. You obey traffic laws to ensure an orderly flow of traffic. You don't shout "fire" in a crowded theater because to do so would cause pandemonium and chaos. Sometimes, to live in a place with the privileges we enjoy here in America, you suck it up and do things you don't want to do because it's for the communal good. If everyone chose otherwise, we would not be a first world country. We would be a country without laws, roads, and schools. We would be a country overrun with disease. Your responsibility to your community is to vaccinate your child. The number of people who actually, literally, physically can't have vaccines is extraordinarily small. The number of people who choose to not vaccinate is not--it's growing. These people cite a vague unease about the number of vaccines a child gets or statistics they learned from Internet memes on autism. They confess conspiracy theories about Big Pharma and how it's all a ploy to get doctors and pharmacists rich. They share anecdotes of a college friend's neighbor's son who got so sick from his vaccine he was hospitalized. They say their child got incredibly sick from the one round of vaccines he or she got at his 2 month visit, and they said they're not vaccinating anymore. Guess what--if your child is sitting here today, talking, walking, eating, laughing, playing, and learning, he or she wasn't that ill from the vaccine. He or she got a fever and reacted to the vaccine--it doesn't mean they had an "adverse" reaction.
I am horrified, non-vaxxers, that you are so quick to forget the lessons of history. You're spoiled and selfish because you have never seen the horrors of a society in which vaccines are not available. Perhaps you should talk to my mother about her neighbor growing up--the one who contracted German measles while pregnant with her third child. That third child was born deaf and with brain damage, thanks to his mother catching that communicable--and now preventable--disease while pregnant. Perhaps you should talk to anyone over the age of 60 about what it was like when polio was around--how nobody was allowed to go swimming or use public drinking fountains for fear of catching that dreaded--and now preventable--disease. Perhaps you should talk to the parents of a child with cancer whose daughter spent a month in the Pediatric ICU during treatment because she caught chicken pox--a preventable disease--from an unvaccinated classmate. Perhaps you should take a trip to a third world country and explain to them why they should not be lining up in droves to get their children vaccinated by the Red Cross or other relief organizations. Perhaps, better yet, you should keep your children out of school.
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Back to my personal understanding: my grandmother contracted German Measles when she was pregnant with my mother. Mama was born extremely hearing-impaired -- nearly deaf -- and missed out on a lot of life enjoyment because of her disability. School was a frustration for her in the 1940s and 1950s. Job opportunities were limited. She had to have bulky, expensive hearing aids all of my life, and they still never made her hearing good enough. I know that she was bitter because of her disability. Now that it is a preventable disease, I can't understand why anyone would deliberately expose other people's innocent children to these horrible diseases under the guise of protecting their own children.